Confession time...
I went on a date this week with a
friend-of-a-friend. I know, usually not a good idea, but my friends were
adamant that we would make a good match. Turns out they were wrong.
The date itself was a lot of fun. We had coffee
on Granville Island and walked around talking about the holidays and our
families. She suggested we get some oysters and pulled out an oyster shucker
from her purse. She obviously came prepared, which was super sweet of her.
We shucked oysters on a bench and ate them raw
with a little lemon and tobacco sauce.
In the end, the chemistry was off, but the date
did get me thinking of 'pre-date planning.' So I made another list.
10 Things Not to Forget on a First
Date
10. Shave
You shave your face for work, just don't forgetto shave for your date.
9. Doors
This is a big one. Occasionally I get a little
preoccupied with how the date is going and I forget some of the basics, like
manners. Chivalry is not dead. Guys, you need to open doors. Always let the
lady enter first if you're going into an establishment. Hold the door and
smile. If you are driving, go to the passenger side and open her door first.
Automatic locks are for suckers.
8. Gum
It's always good to carry along a 'fresh'
package of gum. Make sure to offer your date a piece. She/he will like the
gesture. It also shows you are considering a kiss. Never a bad thing. Just
don't buy Hubba-Bubba. Do they still sell that?
7. Compliments
Everyone likes compliments. Girls, it might not
always seem like it, but your date may have spent the same amount of time as
you did getting ready. Mention his shirt or his shoes. This will let him know
that you are interested and appreciate his selections. Guys, this is basic
stuff. Always compliment your date's outfit within a minute of meeting.
6. Research
You may be only meeting for coffee, but it's
always good to know a bar or restaurant in the local area if you find you want
to lengthen the engagement. If you're doing an activity, figure out the pricing
beforehand. Bring the right clothes and or equipment (helmet, towel,
lightsaber). If you're going hiking, know the trail distance and terrain.
5. Phone Settings
Change your lock screen to something
appropriate. Also set your text settings to notification only. You don't want
your date seeing that awkward text from your friend asking how the date is
going.
4. Cash
Sometimes it can be awkward paying with cards.
Bring along cash for small purchases and for any taxi rides.
3. Condoms
It never hurts to come prepared. You don't want
to be in a situation where you wished you had one.
2. Clean House
Again, you never know where a date is headed.
Start with a quick vacuum, wash the sheets, do your dishes, hang your clothes
and finish with the bathroom. Make sure to have an extra towel in the wings.
1. Laugh
Do not forget to laugh. Dates can be stressful, but you need to let
that go and enjoy the moment.
