10 Things Not To Forget On A First Date

Confession time...

I went on a date this week with a friend-of-a-friend. I know, usually not a good idea, but my friends were adamant that we would make a good match. Turns out they were wrong.

The date itself was a lot of fun. We had coffee on Granville Island and walked around talking about the holidays and our families. She suggested we get some oysters and pulled out an oyster shucker from her purse. She obviously came prepared, which was super sweet of her.

We shucked oysters on a bench and ate them raw with a little lemon and tobacco sauce.

In the end, the chemistry was off, but the date did get me thinking of 'pre-date planning.' So I made another list.

10 Things Not to Forget on a First Date

10. Shave

You shave your face for work, just don't forgetto shave for your date.

9. Doors

This is a big one. Occasionally I get a little preoccupied with how the date is going and I forget some of the basics, like manners. Chivalry is not dead. Guys, you need to open doors. Always let the lady enter first if you're going into an establishment. Hold the door and smile. If you are driving, go to the passenger side and open her door first. Automatic locks are for suckers.

8. Gum

It's always good to carry along a 'fresh' package of gum. Make sure to offer your date a piece. She/he will like the gesture. It also shows you are considering a kiss. Never a bad thing. Just don't buy Hubba-Bubba. Do they still sell that?

7. Compliments

Everyone likes compliments. Girls, it might not always seem like it, but your date may have spent the same amount of time as you did getting ready. Mention his shirt or his shoes. This will let him know that you are interested and appreciate his selections. Guys, this is basic stuff. Always compliment your date's outfit within a minute of meeting.

6. Research

You may be only meeting for coffee, but it's always good to know a bar or restaurant in the local area if you find you want to lengthen the engagement. If you're doing an activity, figure out the pricing beforehand. Bring the right clothes and or equipment (helmet, towel, lightsaber). If you're going hiking, know the trail distance and terrain. 

5. Phone Settings

Change your lock screen to something appropriate. Also set your text settings to notification only. You don't want your date seeing that awkward text from your friend asking how the date is going.

4. Cash

Sometimes it can be awkward paying with cards. Bring along cash for small purchases and for any taxi rides.

3. Condoms

It never hurts to come prepared. You don't want to be in a situation where you wished you had one.

2. Clean House

Again, you never know where a date is headed. Start with a quick vacuum, wash the sheets, do your dishes, hang your clothes and finish with the bathroom. Make sure to have an extra towel in the wings.

1. Laugh

Do not forget to laugh. Dates can be stressful, but you need to let that go and enjoy the moment.